Autism and PDA: A Personalized Approach
sites • September 30, 2025
Autism a personalized Approach
Every autistic individual's journey is entirely their own—no two experiences mirror each other perfectly. The spectrum of autism is vast and beautifully diverse, encompassing those who have formal diagnoses, those exploring their neurodivergent identity, and those who have long sensed they navigate the world differently without quite understanding why.
My work draws from both lived experience and professional expertise, yet I recognize that understanding your specific relationship with autism requires collaboration. Your insights about your own experiences are invaluable. Together, we can examine how autism shapes your daily reality—past and present—and identify the support structures that will help you thrive authentically in your environment.
The Impact of Living in a Neurotypical World
Research increasingly demonstrates that autistic individuals often experience significant trauma from navigating predominantly neurotypical spaces. The constant demand to mask, adapt, or explain oneself in environments that weren't designed with neurodivergent needs in mind creates cumulative stress. I offer support for trauma-related symptoms stemming from:
- Chronic invalidation and misunderstanding
- Educational system trauma
- Social rejection and exclusion
- Sensory overwhelm in everyday environments
- The exhaustion of prolonged masking
Co-occurring Experiences
Autism frequently intersects with other experiences that deserve attention and understanding:
Mental health challenges
including anxiety and depression often emerge from years of navigating mismatched environments and expectations. Post-traumatic stress can develop from repeated invalidating experiences, particularly in school or workplace settings.
Sensory processing differences
affect how you experience your environment—sounds, textures, lights, and spaces may feel overwhelming or conversely, you might seek specific sensory input. Understanding your unique sensory profile is essential.
Interoception and alexithymia
influence how you perceive internal bodily signals and identify emotions. Many autistic people find these aspects challenging, which can affect everything from recognizing hunger to processing feelings.
Executive functioning
variations may influence attention, planning, organization, and memory. Sleep patterns often differ from neurotypical norms. Eating and food relationships can be complex, influenced by sensory sensitivities, routine preferences, and other factors.
We'll explore whether these resonate with your experience and whether they cause you distress—or if concerns primarily come from others' perceptions.
Intersectionality and Identity
Your identity is multifaceted. Being autistic intersects with your culture, gender, sexuality, ethnicity, class, and other aspects of who you are. These intersections create unique experiences and challenges that deserve acknowledgment and exploration. Understanding how different parts of your identity interact helps build a more complete picture of your needs and strengths.
Navigating Adolescence and Self-Discovery
Puberty and adolescence bring intensified challenges, particularly for autistic young people. This developmental period often heightens self-awareness and amplifies feelings of difference at precisely the moment when fitting in feels most important.
During this transitional time, we can work together using various approaches—including visual tools, creative media, and conversation—to:
- Explore emerging emotions and their physical manifestations
- Understand changing social dynamics
- Develop self-advocacy skills
- Build sustainable coping strategies that work beyond our sessions
- Support family members in understanding your needs
The goal is empowering you with tools and understanding that extend far beyond our time together, helping you build a life that honors who you are.
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